ADHD

Notes and tools I keep coming back to for working with an ADHD brain. Sleep, movement, attention, all the basics. Written down so I’d stop forgetting half of it.

What works for me may not work for you, and none of this is medical advice.

Strengths

ADHD comes with some real cognitive upsides. Worth scheduling your day around them instead of trying to flatten them out.

Hyperfocus

That thing where you vanish into a task for six hours when it grabs you. Pointed at the right work, it’s a serious advantage.

Divergent thinking

Adults with ADHD consistently score higher on divergent thinking — generating lots of varied, original ideas from a single prompt.

Energy and resilience

A lot of ADHD adults carry serious energy, drive, and the kind of resilience that comes from years of working twice as hard for ordinary results.

Challenges

The hard parts. Calling them what they are usually makes them smaller.

ADHD paralysis

That state where you can’t start, can’t decide, can’t move, and feel ashamed about it. It has a name. Saying the name helps.

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)

A huge, often physical reaction to perceived criticism, rejection, or failure. Most adults with ADHD deal with it.

Drop the shame

Most ADHD adults carry years of shame from underperforming against neurotypical expectations. Often the shame is louder than the symptoms.

Tools

What helps day to day. Body basics first, then ways to externalise your brain, lower the cost of starting, and add a beat between feeling and reaction.

Move your body

Aerobic exercise raises dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. Same neurotransmitters as ADHD meds, just slower and weaker.

Sleep

One short night amplifies everything: inattention, impulsivity, emotional reactivity. Sleep is non-negotiable.

Food, water, omega-3

Protein, hydration, and stable blood sugar do more for focus than any nootropic. Omega-3 has the most evidence behind it of any ADHD supplement.

Medication

Stimulant medication is the most studied and most effective single intervention for ADHD. Treat it like any other tool.

Brain dump

Get every open loop out of your head and into one trusted place — paper or a single app. The brain isn’t a filing cabinet.

Make time visible

ADHD brains don’t feel time passing. Putting time on something you can actually see helps more than any productivity book.

Body doubling

Working alongside another person, in the room or on a video call, makes hard tasks dramatically easier to start and finish.

Reduce friction

Every step between “I should do the thing” and “I’m doing the thing” is a chance for your brain to wander off. Easier to fix the environment than to keep fixing yourself.

Pomodoro

Work in fixed bursts with breaks. 25/5 is the classic. Adjust the lengths until they fit your brain.

Smallest viable step

Shrink the next action until it’s almost insulting how small it is. Then do that one.

Habit stacking

Don’t build new routines from scratch. Bolt new habits onto things you already do without thinking.

Dopamine menu

A pre-written list of small, healthy dopamine hits, ranked by cost. Reach for it before your phone.

Mindfulness

A short, regular mindfulness practice puts a small gap between feeling and action. That gap is where you actually have a choice.